Adventures in Homeschooling in Southern Indiana

Thursday, November 12, 2015

A Fairy Tale Education: How to use Fairy Tales and Folk Tales to teach Geography, History, World Cultures, and Biology

Kids need background knowledge to understand the world. Reading won’t make sense if they can’t connect the words in front of them to something they’ve already encountered. History and geography need to be more than memorized lists of facts. So, how does a conscientious homeschooler make sure that her youngest students encounter the world and learn about more than their immediate environment?   

You could invest in a grueling and expensive curriculum for your pre-school and kindergarten-aged children. You could spend hours a day grinding through workbooks.  You could focus on academics from the time your tots first pick up a crayon. 

 You could do all those things, but they’re not much fun, and they’re not even developmentally appropriate.  When I want to introduce my children to the world in all its variety and drama, I skip the textbooks and head straight to folktales and fairy tales.

Why Folktales?

For thousands of years, people around the globe have used folktales to introduce their children to basic morals, themes, and ideas. As homeschoolers, we can use these tales to educate our children.  Public libraries often have excellent collections of international folktales. These stories combine beautiful illustrations, complex language, and exciting plots to draw in even the youngest children.  Best of all, you can use them for free.

When you read the folktales of many nations, you get an education in geography and culture. The tales talk about local clothing, housing, foods, animals, and landscapes. Many illustrators adopt the style of local artists, so you can even give your children a taste of the art of many nations. Yet no matter where the tales come from, they address the same themes. Folktales let your children see that, no matter what their languages, traditions, and lifestyles, all people are basically the same, with the same needs, desires, and fears.

There are other ways to introduce your young children to world cultures, but folktales are interesting, inexpensive, and memorable. Even your older children will find them fascinating, and you can tie them into crafts, meals, and field trips. Best of all, folktales are flexible. You can read seasonal tales, tales from a specific country, or just any story that looks interesting. You can educate your children while keeping ‘school’ light and fun.

How to Choose Your Books

My family uses two different approaches to building a folktale curriculum. Sometimes, we’re studying a particular part of the world with my older kids. Then, I try to tie our folktales into the big kids’ work. So, for instance, if my eldest has been studying China, I’ll come back from the library with an armload of Chinese folktales.

At other times, we take a more serendipitous approach. My little ones and I will hit the library, and pick out any folktales that look exciting, interesting, or beautiful. Then we learn a little about the cultures whose folktales appealed to us.  I try to use a mix of the planned and serendipitous methods to make sure that we don’t neglect continents or countries as we travel around the world with stories.

How to Read a Folktale to Your Children\

Before you read a folktale to your children, preview it. Keep an eye out for any parts that might be too scary or disturbing for your children. If you find that a tale doesn’t match your values or your children’s temperaments, skip it. The point of learning through folktales is to have fun, not to cause lasting trauma.

When you sit down to read with your children, give them a little background information first. You don’t have to overload them. A simple introduction like “This story is from China. This is where China is on the map. This is where we live. China is far across the ocean,” is enough to get them started. If you’re reading the creation myths of another culture, you might want to explain how the myths relate to your own religious beliefs.

In our family, we remind the children that not everyone knows about the Bible, but every person wonders about who made him and why he was made. Creation myths are other cultures guessing about the truth. Sometimes, they get parts right, sometimes, they get parts wrong, but all people want to know more about their Creator. Sometimes, these myths helped prepare people so that when missionaries came, they were ready to hear and understand the truth about God.

After you’ve set the stage, snuggle up on the couch and read. Take time to enjoy the artwork and to answer your children’s questions. Remember, the point is to expose them to new cultures, countries, and geographies, not to prepare for a test.  If the story is an especially exciting or funny one, your children may want to listen to it again and again, act it out, or draw about it. These are all good ways to help them remember the folk tale. If, however, a story turns out to be a dud, don’t worry. There are thousands of folktales at your library, and your children won’t like every single one.

If your kids enjoy a story, invite them to compare it to other folktales they’ve heard. How is Brer Rabbit like Anansi?  How is Pecos Bill like Hercules? Many themes, like Cinderella, tricksters, and fools, repeat across cultures. Your kids may begin to see patterns in the stories.

Talk about how the people in the story eat, live, and dress. Talk about the animals, and take the time to learn more about them and their habitats. Let the stories serve as a window to the world.

Some of My Family’s Favorites

  • Everyone has favorite folktales. As we’ve worked through our folktale curriculum, some books have become family favorites.
  • My sons especially love the Norse Myths and tales from the Vikings. Their favorite version is D’Aulaire’s Norse Myths. D’Aulaire’s Book of Trolls is also a crowd-pleaser.
  • All of my children enjoy Steven Kellogg’s retellings of American Tall Tales. Johnny Appleseed, Mike Fink, and Paul Bunyan have made a huge impression on our family. The often come up in our discussions of American history.
  • Trickster tales send my sons into gales of laughter and encourage them to come up with their own stories. Almost every culture has stories of tricksters who overcome brute strength with clever thinking. Look for Anansi the Spider, Loki, Brer Rabbit, Reynard the Fox, and others.
  • Don’t forget the Brothers Grimm! They were some of the world’s first folklorists, and their stories are an integral part of our culture.
  • Challenge yourself- try to find stories from all 6 inhabited continents. 
  • When you read American Indian folklore, get a variety. Stories vary substantially between tribes, and the difference in folktales can help your children learn about the differences in the various Indian cultures.

There’s no reason that young children can’t learn history, geography, and basic ecology in a gentle, age appropriate way.  The next time you’re at the library, take a stroll through the 398.2 section, ask your librarian to point you to some excellent folktales, and get ready to see the world through stories.

Image Source: Wikimedia Commons. Public Domain

Tuesday, November 10, 2015

6 Things You Wanted to Know About That Psycho Lady with 6 Kids, But Were (Hopefully) Too Polite To Ask

You see us pulling up at the soccer field. You gape in amazement as the humungous van spews forth 4 kids in shin guards, a sulking preschooler (she’s too young to play yet), and a maniacal toddler towing his obviously pregnant mother by the hand.  The questions sit right on the tip of your tongue, but your momma raised you right. You don’t say anything, but still, you wonder…..

1. Are you in some kind of a weirdo religious cult? 

No, we’re not. I mean, we’re Catholic, but… Mass on Sunday Catholic, not any special “super-Catholics.”  The only time we go door-to-door is at Halloween, dressed as a random assortment of princesses, heroes, and villains.

 We homeschool, but for the academics and the freedom to set our own schedule, not from any deep-seated conviction that the public schools are out to get us.  We read Harry Potter, and watch popular movies (as long as they don’t suck.) We use words like “suck.” (What can I say, I went to high school in the 90s!) We’re a little weird, but it’s because we’re gamer nerds, not because we’re in a cult.

2. How on Earth do you afford them all? Are your rich or something?

No, we’re solidly middle class. And if we lived in a coastal city, there’s no way we could have had this many kids. But we live in a low cost-of-living area, and we economize. So kids share bedrooms (3 to a room).  We buy passes to the local amusement park instead of going on expensive trips to Disney.  We drive a used car, and it’s not a fancy one. We buy what we can afford.  

Our weekly menu is in limbo until I see what meat is on sale, we shop at Aldi, and we don’t bother with fancy cheese or organic stuff. My goal is to feed my kids balanced meals for as little money as possible.  We eat out 3 or 4 times a year max, instead of Starbucks, I drink coffee made at home, and we happily accept hand-me-down clothes.   So, we have a good life, we have more food and clothes and stuff than we need, but we’re careful about what we spend.

3. How do you do it all?

I don’t. I have 7 kids. I homeschool. I work from home. But I never do it all. In a given day, I need to educate the kids, take care of the house, and earn a living. I usually do an adequate job at 2 of the 3. The trick is to alternate what ball gets dropped so that, when I look at the week, I’m doing OK on all counts. 

I also don’t do it all alone. My husband and I are a team, and we pick up each other’s slack. My in-laws live a mile away and help out a lot.  My neighbors and friends are always present and ready to live a hand.  When you have this many kids, trying to go it alone is madness.

4. So…. Which ones were surprises?

None of them. We know where babies come from, we enjoy where babies come from, and we assume that if I have cycles, there’s a chance of a baby. So we plan ahead and try to keep ourselves in a place where we could handle another child 9 months down the road. (Because NO ONE could handle another baby right now. But with nine months to plan? That’s different.)

5. No, really? Which ones were surprises?

Ok, honestly? Every single child has been a surprise. Even though you know you’re having a baby, you don’t know who that baby’s going to be. Why is this daughter a left-handed math-lover who wants to build space robots for NASA?  How on Earth did we get a coordinated, musical kid?  Who would have guessed that this one would be so good with people and animals?

It doesn’t matter how much you plan for a kid, in the end, every child is unplanned, totally himself, and totally unique.  Whether you have one or 12, they’re all surprises in the end.

6. So when are you going to be done?

I don’t know. Our kids are awesome, and it’s great having our own little tribe. But, realistically, I’m 38. When the new baby is born, I’ll be nearly 39. Before I can get pregnant again (Nursing spaces my kids) I’ll be 40 and a half. At which point fertility becomes awfully chancy.

 So realistically, we might have one more after this one, but I’m not making any bets.  The biological clock is an awful tyrant, and I don’t know when mine will decide that the time for babies has passed.  I do know that when we move to the next stage of life, I’ll be a little sad. Because all my kids are awesome, and I’ve loved watching them grow into themselves.  If they weren’t so awesome, I probably wouldn’t have had so many of them.

Image Source: Wikimedia Commons.

Deirdre Mundy is a homeschooling mother of 6 (soon to be 7), a children’s writer who’s published in several magazines and a freelance copywriter. She posts her in-progress fiction on her blog, her professional updates on LinkedIn, and spends way too much time on Facebook.

Monday, April 28, 2014

Celebrating the Empty Tomb?

Christ executes a flawless DFA move on the unsuspecting Marys, taking first-place in the Battletech LARP Tournament.

Since I’m a pathetically stereotypical Catholic homeschooler (Except for the jumpers, but only because my husband refuses to buy me one), I’ve read quite a few suggestions about how to teach your kids the ‘real meaning’ of Easter. The more memorable ones included exploding marshmallow rolls and miniature tombs. I realized that I’ve been doing Easter wrong. Once we get home from the vigil, it’s all chocolate, eggs, bunnies and hams.  But Easter lasts for 50 days, and I should probably help my kids really live the Gospel experience. 

Right now, the message they’re getting is, “Catholics like to party. Especially if chocolate is involved.”  This is not going to win them any ‘apologist of the year’ awards. I really have to step up my game if my kids are going to win gold medals in the Catholic Homeschool Olympics.  So, I’ve decided to really use the next few weeks to hammer home the message of the empty tomb.

Tuesday, April 15, 2014

A Fresh Start for Easter

Lent is almost over, and I’m relieved.  I had really good Lenten resolutions this year. I was going to get my prayer life on track. I was going to actually take the time to read and reflect on the Bible every single day.  I was going to work through A Mother’s Rule of Life, Holiness for Housewives, and even The House That Cleans Itself. I was going to take time to reflect on my vocation, and really strive to be an excellent wife and mother.  

So how did that go? 

Sunday, March 23, 2014

10 Years in the Diaper Mines: Advice on the Pros and Cons of Cloth Diapers from a Mom of Six

I never did this - We have too many allergies for blissful line-drying!

I’ve diapered non-stop since 2004. For most of that time, I’ve had two kids in diapers. For a few, hellish months, I diapered three kids, and there were even fleeting period with only one child in diapers. At this point, I pretty much have a PhD in cloth diapers. Consider this blog post my dissertation.

Diapering is one of those flash points in the Mommy Wars, but I’ve never been a zealot about it the way I was about nursing (until I experienced the other side with a very sick baby), homeschooling (until I gained some humility) or screen time (until I got very, very tired).

Originally we chose cloth because we were broke. Today, we still use cloth – because we’re cheap. I might have envied my friends who could afford all the disposable diapers they wanted, but I never looked down on them.

So, with that in mind, here’s my round up on the good, the bad, and the poopy of cloth diapers.

Monday, March 17, 2014

Reviving the Blog

Wow! Five years since I posted here. But I wanted a place to blog our adventures in homeschooling, so I'm reviving this blog, with a new purpose.

These days, I have a 4th grader, a 2nd grader, a Kindergartener, a 4 year old, a 2 year old, and a baby. Obviously, I have plenty of time to blog.  Anyway, expect occasional updates in this space, since I've decided that it's time to start blogging for me again. Even if I don't pay myself as well as corporations do!

Loving That Lincoln Loofah

Treasure beyond Your Wildest Dreams
On Saturday, the kids and I spent the morning at Abraham Lincoln's Boyhood Home in Lincoln City, Indiana.  The park runs an excellent living history museum, and we visit a lot during the spring, summer and fall.  Last week, the park hosted a pioneer gardening workshop, and my bigger kids got to help prep the garden for spring planting. (My littles could have helped, but they preferred to watch the chickens. But the big kids made a good effort.)

My eldest daughter worked at clearing brush so that the horse-drawn plow could get in and churn up the ground. While cleaning, she found a strange, skeletal thing in the dirt. The ranger explained that it was the remains of a Loofah squash. The pioneers grew them to use as sponges, and the plants are the source of the natural exfoliating sponges that you see in the health and beauty aisle.

Some fun with Google revealed that when the squashes are young, they're delicious, and when they're older, they're a cleaning supply! (My kids tend to be ambivalent about foods that double as cleaners. My son freaks out whenever I make a vinaigrette for the salad. "Mom! That's a cleaning chemical! You're trying to poison me!")

The ranger let my daughter keep the Loofah she'd found. She's planning on planting the seeds in her corner of the garden, and she hopes to sell her homegrown sponges at the farmer's market next year. I'm less confident of our ability not to screw up, but with luck, we should have a nice crop by fall.

For Local Readers: Next weekend, the Lincoln Boyhood Home is finishing up its first experiment in making maple syrup! Come Saturday morning at 9 for education and pancakes! How can you go wrong? A family annual membership to the park is only $10, so if you homeschool in Southwest Indiana, plan on making it a regular stop.